I’ve always loved the idea of being unattached and able to move wherever my heart desired, even if that meant moving somewhere I had never been. For many years I looked forward to my college graduation because it promised exactly that. I find something so beautiful and freeing about being at a point in life in which I can choose my next steps. As I see it, the world we live in provides countless opportunities to experience new adventures, and I want to take advantage of that.
Post-Grad Departure
I lived in Arkansas for thirteen years. I had never lived anywhere for that long, though I spent my last five or six years there anticipating the opportunity to live somewhere different. For a long time, I loved living in the Natural State because I gained sweet friendships, a deep love of nature, and my higher education… but I’ve never been good at sitting still or staying in one place.
So a month ago I said farewell to my family and friends in Arkansas and began the drive to Washington State. After obtaining my undergraduate degree, facing uncertainty about my next steps, and landing a job that could transfer me virtually anywhere in the country, I didn’t have too much holding me back. Additionally, I was becoming more attracted to a fresh start as I had felt limited and complacent in my previous circumstances.
Moving West
I found the Pacific Northwest appealing for a long time, even without ever having been here. I’ve always loved rainy weather and natural environments. Another benefit of living here is having access to large cities and an international airport, which makes it possible to experience a variety of cultures within seconds. The diversity in the Greater Seattle Area is especially impressive, as I almost always hear people speak different languages on either side of me while eating out or shopping at the nearest grocery store. I also can’t help but appreciate and admire the efforts toward more sustainable living, whether this means embracing reusable grocery bags or choosing to walk instead of drive from place to place.
Many locals have informed me that their favorite thing about Washington is the ability to be in a different terrain within just hours. Mountains, beaches, deserts, forests, rivers, glaciers, and plains — all just a day trip away (if that). This is another feature of the Pacific Northwest I look forward to experiencing more of. Going outdoors gives me a sense of purpose by drawing me closer to the Creator and filling my spirit with calm. It helps me escape from the noise of productivity, stress, and the hum of traffic I can hear outside my apartment as I write this now. Sometimes we all need a moment to be still and listen.
Unexpected Victory
I’m still adapting to this new region and still lacking some important pieces of furniture, but I’m finding a lot of joy in Washington. It feels very freeing to be twenty-two years old and unintimidated by the challenges that accompany starting over. This is a victory I’ve found after years of restlessness and guilt from being able to say but failing to do. I sometimes feel incredibly lonely even when I’m surrounded by other people, but I have peace because I’m no longer limiting myself. For one of the first times in my life, I feel confident to go and look forward to embracing new challenges.